March 27, 2011

THE TEARS OF RASULULLAH (pbuh)

Assalamu Alaikum

Jibraeel (A.S) Once came to Rasulullah (s.a) n Said Allah (swt) has given me the Knowledge to Count Every Leaf on Earth, Every Fish in the Sea, Every Star in the Sky & Every Particle of Sand on Earth, But there's Only One Thing I cant Count....... .. Rasulullah (s.a) asked Jibrael (a.s) WHAT IS IT.......... ......... ......... ......... ......???


Jibraeel (a.s) answer to Rasulullah (s.a) WHEN ONE OF YOUR UMMATII RECITES DUROOD OR SALAM FOR YOU, Blessing Allah (swt) showers upon him bcomes impossible for me to count!!!!!!


THE TEARS OF RASULULLAH (S.A)...

Suddenly, there was a person said salaam. "May I come in?" he asked. But Fatimah did not allow him enter the room. "I'm sorry, my father is ill," said Fatimah turned her body back and closed the door. She went back to her father who had opened his eyes and asked Fatimah, "Who was he, my daughter?" "I don't know, my father. It was the first time for me to see him," Fatimah said gently. Then, Rasulullah ( s.a) looked at his daughter with trembled look, as if he wanted to reminisce about every part of her daughter's face. "Know one thing! He is who erases the temporary pleasure; he is who separates the companionship in the world. He is the death angel," said Rasulullah(s. a) Fatimah bore the bomb of her cry. The death angel came toward him, But Rasulullah (s.a) asked why Jibril did not come along with him. Then, Jibril was called. Jibril was ready in the sky to welcome the soul of Habibullah and the leader of the earth. "O Jibril, explain me about my rights in front of ALLAH?" Rasulullah (s.a) asked with a weakest voice.


"The doors of sky has opened, the angels are waiting for your soul." "All jannats open widely waiting for you," Jibril said. But, in fact, those all did not make Rasulullah (s.a) relieve, his eyes were still full of worry.


"You are not happy to hear this news?" asked Jibril. "Tell me about the destiny of my people in future?" "Don't worry, O Rasul ALLAH (s.a).. I heard ALLAH told me: 'I make jannat haram for every one, except the people of Muhammad (s.a) are inside it," Jibril said. It became closer and closer, the time for Malaekat Izrail to do his work. Slowly, Rasulullah's (s.a) soul was pulled. It was seemed that the body of Rasulullah (s.a) was full of sweat; the nerves of his neck became tight. "Jibril, how pain this sakaratul maut is!"

Rasulullah (s.a) uttered a groan slowly. Fatimah closed her eyes, Ali (r.a) sat beside her bow deeply and Jibril turned his face back. "Am I repugnant to you that you turn your face back o Jibril?" Rasulullah (s.a) asked to the Deliverer of Wahyu. "Who is the one who could see the Habibullah in his sakaratul maut," Jibril said. Not for a while, Rasulullah (s.a) uttered a groan because of unbearable pain. "O ALLAH, how greatest is this sakaratul maut. Give me all these pains, don't to my people." The body of Rasulullah (s.a ) became cold, his feet and chest did not move anymore. His lips vibrated as if he wanted to say something, Ali took his ear close to Rasulullah (s.a) . "Uushiikum bis salati, wa maa malakat aimanuku - take care the salaat and take care the weak people among you." Outside the room, there were cries shouted each other, sahabah held each other. Fatimah closed her face with her hands and, again, Ali (r.a) took his ear Close to Rasulullah's ( s.a) mouth which became bluish. "Ummatii, ummatii, ummatii?" - "My people, my people, my people." And the life of the noble man ended.


Could We Love Each Other Like Him?


Allahumma salli 'ala Muhammad wa baarik wa salim 'alaihi. How deep is Rasulullah's (s.a) love to us.

Note:


Send this to all your Muslim friends so that the awareness to love ALLAH and His Rasul (s.a) appears as ALLAH and His Rasul (s.a) love us - because - truly - the other loves, except it is only fana thing. Ameen....


Don't worry if people hate you because there are many others who love and care you in the earth. But be worry if ALLAH hates you because there is no other who loves and cares you in akhirat


Dear All,


Steadfast in Prayers and If possible forward this e-mail to a number of people you know, Inshallah by the grace of Allah you will be blessed for each person you forward this e-mail to. Insha-Allah. ...

Please Remembers All Muslims Ummah In Your Pious Prayers Inclouding Me..

January 28, 2010

Ten Things We Waste

1. Our Knowledge: Wasted by not taking action with it ..... more

2. Our Actions: Wasted by committing them without sincerity.

3. Our Wealth: Wasted by using on things that will not bring us ajr (reward from Allah). We waste our money, our status, our authority, on things which have no benefit in this life or in akhirah (hereafter).

4. Our Hearts: Wasted because they are empty from the love of Allah, and the feeling of longing to go to Him, and a feeling of peace and contentment. In it's place, our hearts are filled with something or someone else.

5. Our Bodies: Wasted because we don't use them in ibadah (worship) and service of Allah.

6. Our Love: Our emotional love is misdirected, not towards Allah, but towards something/someone else.

7. Our Time: Wasted, not used properly, to compensate for that which has passed, by doing what is righteous to make up for past deeds.

8. Our Intellect: Wasted on things that are not beneficial, that are detrimental to society and the individual, not in contemplation or reflection.

9. Our Service: Wasted in service of someone who will not bring us closer to Allah, or benefit in dunyaa.

10. Our Dhikr (Remembrence of Allah): Wasted, because it does not effect us or our hearts.

Sirajunisha Gulam thasthageer

This subject is for women only!

Another view of marriage.


If you had a husband whose responsibility it was to pay for all your costs, provide you with suitable housing, pay for all your children's expenses, provide you with social recreation as well as treat you kindly, patiently and with justice, would you cooperate with him?


Would you try to make him happy, respect him and forgive him for any wrongs he might do?


Along with that, you would have the right to earn and keep your own money and he wouldn't have the right to tell you how to spend it. You could be a millionaire but he would still have the responsibility to pay for all your needs. Doesn't that sound great?


It happens.


Sirajunisha Gulam thasthageer

7 Conditions For a Woman's Dress

A Hijab is a word that indicated the following conditions :

1. Clothing must cover the entire body, only the hands and face may remain visible (According to some Fiqh Schools) .

2. The material must not be so thin that one can see through it.

3. The clothing must hang loose so that the shape / form of the body is not apparent.

4. The female clothing must not resemble the man's clothing.

5. The design of the clothing must not resemble the clothing of the non believing women.

6. The design must not consist of bold designs which attract attention.

7. Clothing should not be worn for the sole purpose of gaining reputation or increasing one's status in society.

The reason for this strictness is so that the woman is protected from the lustful gaze of men. She should not attract attention to herself in any way. It is permissible for a man to catch the eye of a woman , however it is haram (unlawful) for a man to look twice as this encourages lustful thoughts.

Islam protects the woman, it is for this reason that Allah gave these laws. In today's society womankind is being exploited, female sexuality is being openly used in advertising, mainly to attract the desires of men and therefore sell the product. Is the woman really free in today's society ? The answer is obviously no, the constant bombardment by the media as to how the ideal woman should look and dress testifies to this.

Islam liberated woman over 1400 years ago. Is it better to dress according to man or God ?

Allah has stated in the Quran that women must guard their modesty.


" Say to the believing women that they should lower their gaze and guard their modesty ; that they should not display their beauty and ornaments except what must ordinarily appear thereof. " [Quran : 24.31]

" Say to the believing man that they should lower their gaze and guard their modesty ; that will make for greater purity for them, and God is well aquatinted with all they do. " [Quran : 24.30]

" And O ye believers turn ye all together toward God, so that ye may attain bliss. " [Quran : 24.31]


Author : Naseer Ahmad

Sirajunisha Gulam Thasthageer

December 22, 2009

What are women's rights in Islam?

In a truely Islamic society women have the following rights in Islam:


1. The right and duty to obtain education.

2. The right to have their own independent property.

3. The right to work to earn money if they need it or want it.

4. Equality of reward for equal deeds.

5. The right to express their opinion and be heard.

6. The right to provisions from the husband for all her needs and more.

7. The right to negotiate marriage terms of her choice.

8. The right to obtain divorce from her husband, even on the grounds that she simply can't stand him. (pls note that God deeply frowns upon divorce as a solution unless there is hardly any other alternative but it does not mean that men have more right to divorce their wives than women do.)

9. The right to keep all her own money (she is not responsible to maintain any relations).

10. The right to get sexual satisfaction from her husband.

11. custody of their children after divorce.

12. to refuse any marriage that does not please them

and more...


Sirajunisha Gulam thasthageer

December 16, 2009

Rights and Duties of Women

The Rights and Duties of Women in Islam


Issues in which men and women are treated alike or women are treated favorably.

This article discusses issues that carry little or no controversy.

1. Education

The Messenger of Allah (p.b.u.h.) once said: "Acquiring knowledge is compulsory for every Muslim. (At-Tabarani)

This narration applies equally to men and women. "Knowledge" in this context refers primarily to knowledge of the Holy Quran and Sunnah as no Muslim should be ignorant of his or her Faith, but it also covers other areas of general education, which can contribute to the welfare of civilization. It is precisely the ignorance about their religion among Muslims that has led to men oppressing women because they believe it is permitted, women not demanding their God-given rights because they are ignorant of them, and children growing up to perpetuate their parents' follies. Throughout Islamic history, men and women both earned respect as scholars and teachers of the Faith. The books of Rijal (Reporters of Hadith) contain the names of many prominent women, beginning with Aishah and Hafsah.

2. Worship

Both men and women are the slaves of Allah and have a duty to worship and obey Him. Men and women have to pray, fast, give charity, go on pilgrimage, refrain from adultery, avoid the prohibited, enjoin the good and forbid the evil, and so on. Because of women's roles as mothers, a role which does not end at a specific time but is a round the-clock career, they have been exempted from attending the Mosque for the five daily prayers or for Jumuah (Friday) prayer. Nevertheless, if they wish to attend the Mosque, no one has the right to stop them.

3. Charitable Acts

Men and women are both encouraged to give charity, and there is nothing to stop a woman giving charity from her husband's income. Aishah reported that the Messenger of Allah said: "A woman will receive reward (from Allah) even when she gives charity from her husband's earnings. The husband and the treasurer (who keeps the money on the husband's behalf) will also be rewarded, without the reward of any of them decreasing." Asmaa once said to the Prophet "O Messenger of Allah, I have nothing except what Zubair (her husband) brings home." The Prophet told her: ‘O Asmaa give in charity. Don't lock it lest your subsistence is locked.’"

4. The Right to Own Wealth and Property

A woman has the right to keep her property or wealth, whether earned or inherited, and spend it as she may please.

December 15, 2009

Women in Islam

At a time when the rest of the world, from Greece and Rome to India and China, considered women as no better than children or even slaves, with no rights whatsoever, Islam acknowledged women's equality with men in a great many respects. The Quran states:

"And among His signs is this: that He created mates for you from yourselves that you may find rest and peace of mind in them, and He ordained between you love and mercy. Certainly, herein indeed are signs for people who reflect." [Noble Quran 30:21]

Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon him) said:

"The most perfect in faith amongst believers is he who is best in manners and kindest to his wife." [Abu Dawud]

Muslims believe that Adam and Eve were created from the same soul. Both were equally guilty of their sin and fall from grace, and Allah forgave both. Many women in Islam have had high status; consider the fact that the first person to convert to Islam was Khadijah, the wife of Muhammad, whom he both loved and respected. His favorite wife after Khadijah's death, Ayshah, became renowned as a scholar and one of the greatest sources of Hadith literature. Many of the female Companions accomplished great deeds and achieved fame, and throughout Islamic history there have been famous and influential scholars and jurists.

We might also mention that while many in the West criticize Islam with regard to the treatment of women, in fact a number of Muslim countries have had women rulers and presidents. To name a few: Turkey; Bangladesh and Pakistan.

With regard to education, both women and men have the same rights and obligations. This is clear in Prophet Muhammad's saying:

"Seeking knowledge is mandatory for every believer." [Ibn Majah]

This implies men and women.

A woman is to be treated as God has endowed her, with rights, such as to be treated as an individual, with the right to own and dispose of her own property and earnings, enter into contracts, even after marriage. She has the right to be educated and to work outside the home if she so chooses. She has the right to inherit from her father, mother, and husband. A very interesting point to note is that in Islam, unlike any other religion, a woman can be an imam, a leader of communal prayer, for a group of women.

A Muslim woman also has obligations. All the laws and regulations pertaining to prayer, fasting, charity, pilgrimage, doing good deeds, etc., apply to women, albeit with minor differences having mainly to do with female physiology.